torsdag den 5. januar 2012

5th of January &&How to deal with girls

Heeeey everyone!!
The question for today is; Do you have any pets? And the answer is yes I have 2 turtles called Shrek and Fiona and like 5 fish.

As you can see in the title, I'll give you som tips on how to deal with girls today. And the reason I thought of that "topic", is because I sometimes find it hard to deal with girls. For example today I don't know why, Carol T just like seemed angry or upset every time I got near her and Carol H, and I was very confused cause I haven't done anything. The thing is she does that alot, and it confuses because I don't know why? Then later we walked home together her, me and Mary and all of the sudden she's like "Do you want me to go home?" (she can walk a faster way home than she does when she walks home with us) and we were like "No?" and then she was like "Why are you mad at me Maia?" and I was speechless how could she think I was mad at HER? SHE was mad at ME!! well what I did was I said "No, why would you think that?" and actually she never gave me a reason. But we convinced her that we weren't mad at her and she walked home with us.

So even though I'm not an expert I still think that I know alot about this, because I have had ALOT of drama through the years. I HATE IT! I don't know how to deal with girls if you want a fight or something like that, I can't help there because I'm to much of a chicken to say something to her. Although I am VERY good at avoiding fights! Here comes the tips for dealing with girls:

1. Tell them what they want to hear, if you do this they will definetely stop being mad at you, but it is kind of being a sissy, but if your not brave enough to confront them this is what you can do.

2. Be nice, don't start yelling at them, take it slow and be friendly. Another thing you can do is to a bunch og nice things for her, that way she knows that she can tell you how she feels, why she's sad or angry.

3. Talk to her, sit down and talk to her very gently, tell her how you feel about the way she's treating you or whatever your problems are. Keep cool the whole time and don't get angry with her, if you don't start to yell she probably wont either.

4. Please please don't forget how much you love her! Yes girls can be a very hard thing to handle, but keep in your mind how much you love your girlfriend, friend or sister, it's in our genes don't judge us! ''

5. Confront her, if you have enough confidence go ahead and confront her! Tell her how you feel and that you don't think it's okay the way she treats you! Ofcourse this is only for like when she is mad at you DON'T do this to a girl that's just sad!!!!!!!!!

6. Forget it, it might be a period, give her the chance to confront you and maybe she wont and she'll have forgotten it the next day. Just ignore her being mad and act normal.

I had more tips but everything from 1. and down got deleted, and I forgot some of them :( I hope you find these tips useful. If you have any requests that I can do tips on, pleeeeeeeaaaaaase write them in the comments! Oh and also I thought about one more thing that can make me smile on a bad day, this site;
http://justlittlethings.net/  check it out! Also check out this video on youtube, the link was on the "just little things" site, there you can read the story and please past the video on! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AaAnSBgyjcA .

Soo I hope you'll enjoy all af that. Love M.E <3

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