Hey girls!
Today I decided that I need to talk to Paul in real life, cause I can't possibly decide if I like a person when I have never spoken to the person! It's just impossible! So I just found my "old" tips on talking to guys and I think it's time to try them out. So I'll just post them again, so we can all see them.
At a party:
If you haven't met before:
Bump into him, and then smile -maybe laugh a bit. Then you introduce yourself, and ask for his name. Then intead of asking him a bunch of questions just ask him if he wants to join you (and your friends?) on the dancefloor. If there is a dancefloor, there is at most of the partys I go to. If not, just tell him that your friends are over there, and ask him to come meet them. If he says yes you're golden!
If you have met before:
If you have met, maybe talked, just go over and say hi. If he doesn't remember you, tell him your name, and where you know him from. Like this: "I'm Maia-Elle we met at Carol's place" or "I'm Anna's friend", it's easy. And once he remembers you, ask him random questions like; "Are you enjoying the party". Maybe if he is standing with his friends, ask him to introduce you, or ask them for their names. But if you have the courage, please ask him to introduce you, then he knows that you're more into him than them.
Random tip: It's always nice to bring a friend when you want to talk to a guy, then you're not alone. But if you have the courage to do it alone, please do! You don't want your friend to steal your "thunder".
In school:
You haven't (officially) met before:
"Accidentally" bump into him in the hallway. Yes I know clichee, but they show this all the time in movies, so why shouldn't it work in real life? If he drops anything help him pick it up and tell him you're sorry. If you drop anything ask him to pick it up, like this; "Woops I'm sorry, could you please pick that up?" and when he does; "Oh thank you so much!", then ask him a random question like "You're in my math class right?" or "Are you in the same english class as Jenny?" you know just random things, that you might already know, but just ask him anyways, it wont kill you ;)
You have talked once or twice:
If you see him standing alone, go over and say hi, and again if he doesn't recognize you, tell him your name and who you are/where he has met/talked to you before. Now ask him some questions, get him started, you know, he might need a little push (If you are very uncomfortable, bring a friend with you, but make sure you do most of the talking!). It works best if you have a class or something with him, then you can talk about that. And if you don't talk about cheasy thing like the weather or vacation or something like that ;) Oh and if you want his number, this one is really cheasy; Tell him that you can't find your phone, ask him to call it for you, now he has your number, and you have his. When you find your phone thank him and walk away.
Random tip: If you have met, but he doesn't remember you, that is a sign that he might not like you, in that way. But you can always change that, so don't let it hit you hard.
In your sparetime:
You haven't met before (officially or not at all):
Ask him for directions, smile a him (wink if your brave), ask him for help (like "are these pants nice? I'm buying a gift for my brother and I don't know what boys like?" or "Is this band good? It's for my friend and she likes hard metal music, but I'm totally lost in it! What's good, what's not") or maybe what bus goes where, use your imagination!
You have met/talked before:
Go over and say "I thought it was you" then if he remembers you keep the conversation going with questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?", "Have you been to any cool parties lately?" (the last one sucks, but it's better than awkward silence). If he doesn't remember you, don't wait for him to ask you who you are, just say "I thought it was you" and if he looks like wtf? who if that? then continue and say "It's me Maia-Elle from that party last week!" or whatever. When he recognizes you, go on with the conversation with questions like; "Sooo did you have a big hangover after that party last friday?" or "Did you also have that test in your math class? I thought it was really hard!". Hehe you get the feeling right?
Now my situation is probably in school, and have talked once or twice, because even though we haven't, we have texted so much it would be very rude to go up and ask for his name or something like that! So I'm gonna try that, you know asking him some questions about spanish class. But I'm nervous, like really nervous! I might use the sparetime, met once or twice, one too. But I don't know if we have anything to talk about. And it's kind of freaking me out! I HATE awkward silence it's like the worst thing ever! But I don't have a choice, I have to talk to him soon! I mean it's so stupid just texting and never ever talking to each other! But it will take a lot of courage (which I don't really have!) Okay that was it, I will tell you how it goes, and hopefully I will have some great news! Let's see. Love M.E<3
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