God I'm so sorry, I suck at blogging everyday, obviously! And I've been gone for so long that blogger changed! That's a serious lack of blogging then. I hope you can forgive me :I
So I could go on all day about me who hasn't been blogging, but instead I think I should give you some tips of some kind. And since I'm going through this whole thing with Paul, why don't I give you some tips on texting guys? Not that I'm any good at it, obviously, but I might have some tips anyways?
#1: Be sure that it's obvious, what you mean by your texts! You can easily misunderstand a text, cause you can't see if a person is joking or means it. So always be very clear about that!
#2: Try not to write anything you wouldn't say to the person IRL, cause then you just start only texting and not talking IRL and that's not a healthy relationship (It's the kind I have with this dude, but still that's NOT healthy!)
#3: Try to talk to the person IRL too, because well it's sad to only be friends/a couple over text! I know it can be hard talking after knowing so much about each other over text, and so little about each other in real life.. BUT PLEASE DO IT ANYWAYS! It will only get more awkward, so get it over with, rip of the bandaid. (And again, no that's not what I did, and please learn from my mistakes!)
#4: Be nice and happy. If you don't really know this person, DO NOT start talking about your feelings, and how you hate your life and that you have no friends and bla bla bla. Talk to your girlfriends about that! If the person doesn't know you, it's very overwhelming to have a person sharing this stuff with you. Wait until you know each other more and then let it all out!
#5: Be sure the person you're writing knows what you mean by "<3". Some people write this to everybody, and means nothing with it. And then some people assume that the person, who wrote it, must have a crush on them or something. You should know what the person means by it, before you go ahead and write it to someone, cause what if they think you mean something else than you did? :o
Seriously please follow these! I know there's not many, and I'm sorry about that, but these were the only ones I could come up with. But follow them please! I'm going to follow them, which means that I have got to start talking to Paul! I don't know him IRL at all, and that's just awful. I promise to talk to him next week, and the week after that, and the week after that, and the week after that. I just need to start talking to him, and then the conversation will start to floooow! Can't wait for that moment, but I have a feeling that I have to go through some awkwardness first -.- Daaaaamn! Haha, I'll be okay!
Love M.E<3
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